Gentle Reminder.

 It's always very easy to assume about people's lives from where we are. We may not even ever get to know them but based on just our observations of that person, we tend to assume a lot about them. And I for one, avoid these people, not because they are bad, but because they usually tend to have a negative outlook about their lives. I have, for a long time, tried to be a problem solver, which might sound like something that's good and something I should continue to do, but these are problems that I should never have taken any interest in. Problems like people constantly complaining about their lives, all the while telling me how they are completely perfect and it's only their situations that are bad. They tell me that they envy me for being in such a good position. The person I used to be a couple of years ago would try to solve their issues, which solely are existential and have nothing to do with me and therefore cannot be solved by me. I don't wish anyone any ill will and wish them all lots of positivity but I will reiterate that sometimes, you don't need others' negativity. Especially of those who assume things about you. You wish them well and you move on. Remember you can only do what's best for you, you can try to do what you think is best for them but ultimately, it's them who have to decide what's best for them. Stay away from negativity that you don't need in your life. Just a simple reminder. 

Love, peace.