Meant To Happen.

Sometimes, it's those people that we are too invested in that have the potential to hurt us the most. It's those people who we are emotionally attached to, it's those people who don't realise how we feel about them, it's those people whose good sides are the only sides we look at, who have the potential to break us into a million pieces. Bad news, its probably going to be almost next to impossible to collect all of those pieces up and put it back together. Good news, it's only next to impossible and not impossible altogether, so sit tight.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

Is it going to be tough, absolutely. In fact, there is actually no other way it is supposed to be. Because in our minds, we have idealised this person. Everything that they do is probably something that we think is the purest form of the most precious thing on the planet, or even the whole universe. And just because things ended in a bad way between the two of you, it doesn't in the very least mean that they are bad. It's just not something that was meant to be and whatever is not meant to be for us is in fact something that is not meant to be and it is very important to cement that into our minds so that we can at least focus on what is meant to be or focus on trying to figure out what is meant to be. Sure, it's going to hurt but you can't stomp on fire with the intentions of extinguishing it without at least experiencing a few burn marks. And that's the very least I can say about choosing to end something. You have the right to feel the way you feel and they have exactly the same right to feel whatever they feel and I don't think neither of you is wrong in doing that.

Love, peace.