Sliding

Sometimes we dive in headfirst without considering the truth that we really don't know what we're diving into. And we do that mostly because we have a part of ourself invested in whatever we're diving into. 

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

And we don't quite realize what we've dove into until after we get hit hard. Not that its wrong to dive or that its bad, just that the aftermath is something we would never have anticipated in a million years. And the very fact that what we love so much has hurt us as badly as it has is going to take a lot of time, patiencs and effort to heal from. The falling down part doesn't really feel like falling down. It feels a lot like sliding down merrily into a pool of water, only to realize at the very bottom that its anything but a pool of water. I know its not quite possible to anticipate every outcome and I'm not suggesting to do that. Sometimes its okay to understand why it is we're so invested in those things that we're invested in. Especially if its people that we're invested in. Its okay to get let down too but never is it okay to be treated badly. You deserve a lot better than that.

Love, peace.