Control.

We don't often realize how we treat others when we're in a mood of despair or pain, we forget we could hurt anyone as badly as we've been hurt and that's not always okay, even if we don't really mean to hurt people.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

It doesn't matter that our situations are bad, it doesn't matter that we're distraught, it doesn't we've been used by people and it doesn't matter that the world and life in general is unfair. Adding up to this unfairness is siding up with the demons we believe we're fighting against, and this is very hard to practice, as easy as it is preach. It takes immense effort to always be in control of the person we are and not be driven by emotions we can't control and feelings that we don't really know how to deal with. To be present is indeed a gift not many posses, to know exactly how to not be driven by limitations and situations is indeer power and evidence of the inner strength one posseses. And ignoring any of this exists is a joke, and that's my opinion.

Love, peace.