Hand Lending.
Its okay to let people think they've won, sometimes. Especially if that victory means the whole world to them and if it really doesn't mean anything to you and you're just doing it because you can. Not that you should give up from your end or that you should lie to them about you still being better at it than them, but by just giving them that closure that they too are the very best at it or help them get to your level if you think you can, you'll propel yourself and them to better heights.
Hello there, I'm the Earthian.
If you can help boost someone's confidence, even if its not by a large margin, why not go for it? I mean, seriously, you really aren't losing anything and it paves ways for the both of you to get better at things. Its an alternative for competitions. From being preached our entire lives that life is a race and that it is us who has to come up on top, you can literally or figuratively both just help each other out and reach the finish line together, and then find out later on that there are no finish lines nor are there beginnings. Its all in the journey. And the fact that you did it together and that you helped eachother out will give a whole new dimension to your memories. Us being successful has little to do with anyone else being successful and if it means all of us can be successful at the same time, I really can't think of any reason to not be, you know what I mean? Just think about it.
Love, peace.
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