Give It Time.

I think sometimes we just are in a big hurry to feel things, for better or worse, depending on how the situation has played out, just so we can move on. We forget everything else in life and rush in to feel the emotions, mostly because we just want to get it done with, so we could finally move the hell on. Especially when the feelings involved are bitter.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

Seldom do we remember that it doesn't quite work that way. We can't really move on, I don't think any of us ever can, at least not from those things and those people that we truly got ourselves invested in. We can't take back our investment, neither can we forget we ever did invest. What we want is some form of closure that would just alleviate our pain just a little bit, just so we can move on. The part that is invested reminds us of how great things were and finds ways to keep us circling it and the part that wants to move on only needs some reassurance that it really is all going to be okay. The invested part keeps us questioning the reality and makes us wonder how to fix it or if we could have done better, the part that wants to move on is convinced that there aren't fixes anymore and that anything that you do is probably only going to make it that much worse. There just isn't a winner here.

We quite often forget it takes time to heal. Even if its just a miniscule graze, it takes time for the body to heal and us hurrying and trying to mess with the wound with hopes that it'll get better sooner is probably only going to make it worse. And the healing time too is relative to our own bodies. There just aren't any alternative routes, any painkillers or numbing agents. No alcohol or drug is ever going to help you with it. Give it time, as long as it takes, as long as you need. Things are bound to change.

Love, peace.