Bit By Bit.

You know sometimes it's okay to not be okay. Physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically, all of them together, it's still okay to not be okay. It's going to get better. I can't promise you when it will get better or how it is that it is going to happen but it just might happen when you don't expect it to happen.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

And no, I'm not just saying this because I want you to feel better. It's just one of the reasons, me wanting you to feel better. Heck, I can even promise you. And you might think who in the world am I to promise you and what in the world I know to make this promise and how in the world I am going to keep it and you're not entirely mistaken to have these suspicions. I don't have an answer to any of the above. All I know is that sometimes it's just easy to get caught up on the situations that went wrong in the past and it's just a lot easier to stay caught up on them because those are the ones that have made a significant influence in your life. But the present is an opportunity that ticks away by the second until you just might not have another second. And if reeling back your past is what you want to do, then hey, by all means, go for it. Stay there for as long as you want and then maybe, just maybe, you might want to look at the present.

To notice all the things that changed is really easy and at times, really suffocating. To look at those things that haven't changed, well, that takes a little effort because we don't usually give those things the credit they deserve. The world for example, it's still beautiful and it's still too big to give us enough excitement for a life time. The sun is still going to rise, at least for a very long period, and the heat and light from it is still going to make us feel alive. The plants are still green and the sky is still pretty no matter what time of the day it is. Even people. They're still who they are. Maybe things between you and them have changed but they are still who they are and hence still beautiful the way they are.
And I get it, appreciation is not the easiest to do at this point, but it just might be the simplest of actions to feel slightly better. Only slightly, one bit at a time.

Lots and lots of love, peace.