The Right Words.

I wonder how people always know what to tell to whom. I mean, there are a select few who always just say the right things to the right people and they make it a point to always be that person who only says those right things to those exact people so as to never ever get in trouble.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

And sometimes, it makes me wonder what it is that they're trying to accomplish here by doing this for it really makes zero to negative sense. I get how people might want to stay in the good books of eachother but to just outrightly lie about things to do that just seems pathetic. Maybe this is all just me, but I'd much rather take the combination of honesty and rudeness than dishonesty and politeness. It just doesn't feel too good to be at the receiving end of a message that has been completely sugarcoated just so I don't get hurt by the message. Maybe, I can consider the fact that it was because of very good intentions that people sugarcoat, that it is because they value my friendship and acquaintanceship that they sugarcoat, but I'd have to drop my considerations as soon as I considered them for I believe if a friendship cannot handle honesty, it isn't friendship in the first place. It can be any relationship for that issue. If it can't handle honesty, it isn't worth it. Intentions can only take us so far. It can never replace actual actions and actions are what that has the potential to make a relationship. Maybe if we live a lie long enough it just might become true but we all know how durable lies are.

Love, peace.