Just?

There might be times in your life where you either come off as the weak person or the bad person. There is no winning here; you give in and you'll have your time ruined for you and you stand your ground and you'll still only have your time ruined. Absolutely no winning here. Or is there?

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

You either are going to be someone who's going to let people walk all over you and have them stomp on you or it's you who's going to be the one who's doing the walking over and stomping part. And as much as you might not like this, as much as you might even hate this, there is no escaping it. So the choice is really up to you.

And especially when you're someone who isn't in the good books of people and especially when you have a little bit of desperation going on, you just might be convinced to have people walk all over you. Because in your mind that's fixing things, letting people have what they're looking for even though every inch of your mind and body wants you to not do it. But does it fix things?  That's always going to remain uncertain because people always have a very good knack of keeping you inside the loop just enough to make you believe you mean something to them but once you become tarmac to them, you're most likely going to remain tarmac to them for the foreseeable future and you'll only be used to build good roads and be ridden on.

And when you get your way by force, you're making things deliberately worse for you socially. And at times like these, you really can't pick either one of these awful choices. You might as well stick a fork in an apple and hope you weren't in a situation like this but because you are, you're only left to do what your intuition tells you to do. Go big or go home. Only one of those choices is fair and just and only you know what it is.

Lots of love, peace.