Something To Think About.

I think at some point in our lives, we have all been that person who takes defeats personally, to our hearts, like those defeats are personal reminders for us to never try anything even related to what we "lost" to again. 

Hello there, I'm the lad who walks around referring to himself as 'the Earthian'.

One reason to not take defeats to our hearts is that when you do so, you let them define you and I am not sure that is what you need from yourself. The last person you want to to take you for granted is yourself for that would mean you've truly lost. In the same light, I would also suggest to not take victories to your heart too, for almost the same reasons, you do not want your victories to define you. I'm sure you would much rather be remembered for the person you were, if you want to be remembered in the first place, and not for what you achieved or accomplished. Not to mention, I'm sure having a bloated ego is one way drive downhill. Just a couple of things I wanted to suggest to you to think about. 

Love, peace.