Disappointments.
If there is one thing that is certain about people, it is the fact that people are going to bring in a lot to the table, our table. And, we aren't going to like everything that is being brought to the table. It would be a mixed bowl of satisfactory moments, happy moments and some utterly disappointing moments.
Hello there, I am the Earthian.
And I am including myself. There is absolutely no way a person can capture the heart of just about every single person he engages himself with. It just is impossible. But this also is what that makes the bond that gets formed between people so special. Embracing not just the weaknesses of self but also the weaknesses of the person we cherished time with. Being there when one is wounded, helping them up, holding their hands, not hating them even when they hate themselves, listening to stories that broke their hearts and listening to tales that took them towards glory, sharing time with them in just about every single way possible is what makes you realize you actually are friends with them.
But what happens when people you became friends with end up disappointing you, and even hurting you badly? What happens then?
Does it render all of the previously cherished moments irrelevant? Does it take you from caring for them deeply to hating them? Does it turn some sort of a switch on that actuates all the hatred you have in your potential at them? Of course it hurts. But that doesn't take any thing away from you, does it?
There are times in every one of our lives when we take bad decisions, awful decisions. These are decisions that will hurt us badly and hurt those people who love us for who we are badly . They end up becoming accidental victims of us and a spark of hatred starts revolving from then on.
The normal way things get settled is going back and forth and attacking each other verbally, physically and emotionally, which is what most would do. The high way would be quietly accepting everything that happened, choosing to forget the spat and also choosing to just rejoice the beautiful moments that were had with them.
No hate, all love, peace.
Hello there, I am the Earthian.
And I am including myself. There is absolutely no way a person can capture the heart of just about every single person he engages himself with. It just is impossible. But this also is what that makes the bond that gets formed between people so special. Embracing not just the weaknesses of self but also the weaknesses of the person we cherished time with. Being there when one is wounded, helping them up, holding their hands, not hating them even when they hate themselves, listening to stories that broke their hearts and listening to tales that took them towards glory, sharing time with them in just about every single way possible is what makes you realize you actually are friends with them.
But what happens when people you became friends with end up disappointing you, and even hurting you badly? What happens then?
Does it render all of the previously cherished moments irrelevant? Does it take you from caring for them deeply to hating them? Does it turn some sort of a switch on that actuates all the hatred you have in your potential at them? Of course it hurts. But that doesn't take any thing away from you, does it?
There are times in every one of our lives when we take bad decisions, awful decisions. These are decisions that will hurt us badly and hurt those people who love us for who we are badly . They end up becoming accidental victims of us and a spark of hatred starts revolving from then on.
The normal way things get settled is going back and forth and attacking each other verbally, physically and emotionally, which is what most would do. The high way would be quietly accepting everything that happened, choosing to forget the spat and also choosing to just rejoice the beautiful moments that were had with them.
No hate, all love, peace.
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