Company.

Humans are approval seeking creatures longing for proper connections. We are always on the hunt for people who resonate with us, people who will support us through any situation and will be with us no matter what.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

And we do all that for good reason. We do that because it feels good. It feels amazing when our presence gets appreciated. It feels warm when we feel like we are a part of something beautiful. It feels great when people side with us and make us feel right at home. It feels blissful when we are accepted for the person that we are, you know, just as we are without being called out for our weaknesses, flaws and failures either directly or indirectly. It feels reassuring to know that we have something to look forward to, it feels great to know that we aren't alone in this journey of life and it feels fantastic when we are able to share anything and everything with someone who just is  so accepting, approving and appreciative of us. The bottom line is that it just feels extremely good to have great company.

But if we think about it, not all of us have this great company. Some of us are blessed with it and then there are those of us are who are left out. There are those who are negatively contributing to the society with a lot of company of their own kind and then there are those who are positively contributing to the society with a lot of company of their own kind. But then there are also those of us who are left out in the middle. People hang out with us, talk with us, share stories with us and also leave us at the end of the day. Nobody stays with us. We are neither here in the north pole nor there at the south pole. We are always in the middle. People want to be around with us when they get little choice but not when they get more than just a few options. We aren't anyone's first choice and we get shown just that.
These are the ones who are more susceptible to getting hurt than anyone else. Because these are actually good people, granted a little different than the rest of us because they obviously are neither the south nor the north, but nevertheless are good people. And when they don't find company that appreciates them as much they appreciate the company that they do partially get, they get tired. And they retire to the solitude that they have gotten used to. Don't get me wrong, solitude is great, I personally love it, but I also wouldn't mind lovely company.

Lots of love, peace.