Critique?

Sometimes we are afraid of doing something that we utterly want to, but can't because we have that moment of insecurity where we question ourselves, from the perspective of others.

Hello all, The Earthian here.

What I am trying to say is that, we ask ourselves, "Are you really that guy? Whom are you kidding?"
Why do we do it? I mean, we already have enough people questioning our choices about our life. We already have enough people waiting for our downfalls. We already have enough people waiting to grab our opportunities in life and make it theirs, all in a moment's notice.
The only reason I can come up for that kind of an action that people take is the fact that we have started to not believe in ourselves more than we believe in others' words because we have let their words get to us.

There is a big difference between criticism and constructive criticism. Humongous. See, when people say that what you're doing is wrong or not good or anything on that line, and they don't have a significant back-up to reason what they just said, it's criticism, widely speaking.
It means, that they don't really care if you succeed or fail and all they want to do is to give you their darn opinion. That's one of the easiest things to do in life, A.K.A, commenting.

When people actually tell you why they don't like what you're doing, by giving you evidences of your mismanagement that you've failed to notice, and they give you tips on how to resolve them, they're being constructive critiques. It's as simple as that.

Learnt to separate them both and you'll find yourself amidst the kind of people who actually are positive!

Looking forward to writing again, peace.