Acceptance.

I guess, sometimes, when you let time to take its course and just do the magic it always does and not be a rebel just because you can be, you get to realize that not only things change, but that your perception of things' changes also changes. And sometimes, very rarely, changes that you would have once dreaded become changes that you no longer dread so much.

Hello there, I am the Earthian.

And when you get really lucky, you might even witness yourself accepting these changes with a very open and warm heart, considering all that has happened. And these changes, whilst they are heart-breaking from a personal point of view, don't necessarily do the same when you take the spectator seat on your own life. And that helps. Sure, memories get triggered and sometimes we might even drift away into our thoughts of how things could have been and even should have been but when we slowly drag ourselves back to the reality that we are in, and start accepting things for what they are, we get to see why this too isn't so bad an option for us to experience either. 

It gets okay. Or we get to be okay with it. And either one of the options isn't bad.

Love, peace.