Integrity.

People who complain about their lives really get to me. It makes me so mad, sometimes, when they shower themselves with sympathy and how their lives are the worst. It hurts me when they make their lives an excuse for their attitude. It pulls me down to just listen to all the negativity they throw around.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

Not only do they try and make other people feel sorry for them but they have the potential and the tendency to make everyone around them feel sorry for their own lives. The negativity they bring is contagious. And it doesn't end there. When they do get something good happening in their lives, they don't appreciate it. They don't respect it. They move on to something else that they could possibly complain about. They go round and round and round around the same circle until they just can't do that anymore.
If the above description resembles your attitude, I ask you, I request you, to just open your eyes, take a deep breath, smile and wake up internally. I need you to take a moment, to stare at yourself, look into your eyes in the mirror and appreciate what you see. I want you to say something positive about yourself and work from that point on. I'd like you to never look back at yourself with pity and sympathy, because if you do that, everyone else too would do the same to you and the negativity in you would live forever.

As long as you have the will power to make something happen, as long as you want to make something happen, it is still well within your reach. Go for it.

Lots of love, peace.