What's helping?

 I am a lot of things, one thing I am not is perfect. I have my weaknesses, flaws and pressure points, just like I have a set of my own good traits. I do not expect to be looked up on for what I consider are my good traits, and just like that, I don't expect to be looked down at for my bad ones. I am still learning, and perhaps if you weren't so judgemental about it, I'd share it with you to get better help. I am not saying you are the reason I have flaws, but you judging me based on them isn't helping me get better any sooner, it makes it that much worse, it makes it that much harder, it makes me feel that much more useless. This applies to everyone and anyone who's struggling in whatever way they are struggling to let go of their flaws and weaknesses. Help them if you can, by speaking kind words, by speaking powerful words by practicing kindness, by practicing love. Don't make them feel worse for them doing their best, their very best to become better as people. 

Love, peace.