Doors.

 I have been guilty of killing my own opportunities. But it's one I've certainly learned from. My rule of thumb now is to keep all the doors I have at my disposal open until I no longer can and have to make a decision. And I think it's one of the best rules I have ever set for myself. Not that I don't lose opportunities any more, I do, quite often, but it has nothing to do with me being my own enemy and shutting down my own doors and windows of opportunity. Now its because I go through with my choices and chances, as far as I possibly can and then lose it because of fair circumstances, as fair as it can be anyway. please don't be that guy, don't be that person, don't be that person who closes his own doors and complain about the door being closed. Keep all your doors open, keep them all open for as long as you possibly can and allow yourself the freedom of choosing. I'm not saying it will solve all of your problems, but it will solve some of them. Surely. Believe in that .

Love, peace.