Control.

Sometimes, its better to not give anything at all than give something that would bring someone down. Especially if that someone is not someone you're typically fond of. 

Hello there, I am the Earthian.

The simple truth, that we all are aware of, is the fact that we just aren't going to be mixing well with everyone. Sometimes, we might even get mad at people and let our emotions get the better of us and run our mouths in ways that we wouldn't dream of doing with others, There are those who even get under our skin and  its with these people that we completely lose ourselves. And when we do, we can rest assured that there is absolutely no way we're having a good day until we chase them away from our skin. Solution? Well, there isn't much you can do about it if you're okay with being animated against those you don't bond well with. Something that you can do is not bother about them, at all. Live your life and let them live theirs. Forget them. You don't have to care for them in any way whatsoever, positive or negative. It is what it is and they are who they are. Don't give them control over your life that they don't deserve.

Love, peace.