Victim?

The moment you start looking at yourself as a victim, the moment you start exaggerating the events that has happened in a way that's blaming everyone else, the moment you give way to excuses to blame everyone else for whatever that's happened to you, you start doing yourself the worst favour you can do to yourself.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

It's not a consoling feeling, the feeling of being the victim. Especially when you make yourself the victim by twisting the story to how you want it to be. That feeling will do a couple of things to you, one of them being the fact that it will blindside you. It will always blindside you from the reality. Once you start looking at yourself like you're a victim, you will always only look at yourself like you're a victim. There will always be that loophole for you to look for an escape for yourself. And once that happens, settling to mediocre things in life is what you will witness yourself doing. And you won't even take responsibility for that. You will still only look for loopholes and leak points.
The other thing that it does to you is that it will make you lose your dignity. If you're someone who  couldn't give a dime about your dignity, no problem. But if you're someone who does, then get ready for a big dig at your own dignity. The moment you start feeling sorry for yourself, the moment you start feeling pity for yourself, you will want other people to feel sorry for who you are. And any attention given to you out of sheer pity is attention that basically isn't even worth anything. Your existence will always depend on the validation that you receive from others and that is of no good. You'll only find yourself wanting more and more of the validation.

But most of all, calling yourself the victim is accepting defeat. Think about it though.

With a lot of love, peace.