The bad.

I feel like, at some level, people just like to get some attention on them. Maybe it's because they need it, maybe it's because they want it or maybe it's because they are desperate for it.

Hello there! I'm the Earthian.

I don't know if it's just me, but from what I've observed, I can tell that people generally like to share the bad incidents that happened to them, much more than the good incidents. They do it in such an emotional way, that it doesn't promote self sympathy. Note that I'm not suggesting or saying that it's wrong to let out the sad, deep, inner feelings. Maybe it just relieves the stresses momentarily. Maybe it gives a feeling of reassurance.

When I ask for people's stories, they tell me how much they've suffered and how much pain they've endured in their lifefime. Few people want to share the happy moments in their lives. I mean, whatever happened, happened. There is utterly no point in just dwelling in the past
and reminding ourselves about all of those sad memories. You see, if you focus just on what went in the wrong direction, there'll soon come a time when you won't enjoy things when they go in the right direction.

Lot's of Love, peace.