Advice.

Everybody in this world has something to say to you. Some wisdom to share. Some free advice to give. If we go around listening to everyones', we'll probably be going around for the rest of our lives.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

Whether we like it or not, it's us that searches for advice most of the time. We look for the ideal person in every person we meet. And sometimes it works out well and at other times, it doesn't. If you're ever looking for someone to give you advice, this is for you.

To put it generally, there are two types of people that give advice. A. The type that is seriously learned and respectable. These people not only give you advice but tell you where you went wrong in a constructive way. They give you a sense of reassurance which is, in a way, motivational. After talking to them, you feel confident and responsible. You'll be in a position to own up to your actions and deeds.
Their advice is pretty much just like a talk. They just tell you about their choices and give you a fair warning about what to not do. These people are very rare to find.

On the flip side, there is the second type of advisors. These people are self proclaimed "Know it all"s. They are very well versed in everything, apparently. They are very nice talkers and they make you feel really comfortable while talking to them. Their goal is the same too, to make you feel reassured. But they take the route of making you point fingers at other people for your ignorance. They make you feel like it's okay to have committed a mistake that even you know you should not have committed. You'll soon start feeling whatever you've done is not abnormal and you'll never get the mindset to own up to your actions.

Just ask yourself "Who's this person advicing me?". You'll find the answer soon enough.
You know whom I'd recommend? Your conscience. Because it always knows what's right and what's not. Listen to it. Look for it. Find it.

Lots of love, peace.