Relate

We humans always like the feeling of being able to relate ourselves with something, anything.

Hello all, The Earthian here.

The reason for this trait of ours is the fact that it gives us some sense of togetherness. It brings us the feeling that we are not alone in this planet. It tells us that there are others who are just like us and that feeling comforts us, consoles us.

For some reason, most of us are scared of being alone. The thought of being alone just brings us the creeps. Can you seriously imagine yourself being alone when you're 60 years old?
The answer for most people is going to be a clear "no.". This is because we relate being alone with sadness. We also relate being together with people with happiness. I get it, unity is a reason for happiness.

But, think about it, why do we feel lonely? Is it because you think it is wrong to be alone? or is it because everyone else seem to be with someone which makes you want to be with someone?

Honest truth is, the solution is to not find a person who can make you happy. Happiness is eternal, you must find it within yourself. After finding it, sharing it with another person will just take it to another level. That really is how it works. There is a reason why I call myself my closest friend.

Start relating yourself to yourself. You will find happiness once you start realizing how precious you really are, how valuable you are. Just relate.

Lots of love, peace.