Loss?

Let's talk about one of the biggest deterrents of all time. Yeah, you got it right, I'm talking about loss.

Hello all! The Earthian here!

So, first of all, I'm sorry for missing in action yesterday! I'll try to keep my number of absent days to a minimum.

So, we all want to win and only win. Come on! Let's face it, who wants to lose on purpose?
To start with, we often fail to understand the difference between losing and not winning. You get something everytime you win, a token of appreciation. You win prizes, trophies, medals and so on. When you don't win, you're only not getting that token of appreciation. You're not losing anything new or anything from what you already won or posses.

This is often a huge confusion that results in people not trying at all. People say "I don't want to lose! If I'm in, I'm going to be there to win!", which is just fine. But what you don't understand is the exact difference that I explained above.

And because the world has established it's own concept of victories and defeats, it's understandable why people are unwilling to even just try.
And also, there is this huge myth that the winner is superior and you're inferior just because you lost. I'll talk more about it soon!

The bottom line is, you're not a loser. Not in any way or form. Just realize it and have fun with whatever you're trying!

Lots of love, peace!