Setting Up Boundaries.

I used to be really scared about actually living my life the way I want to live. A part of me would feel really guilty for just being the way I am. It didn't quite matter to me how much I got attacked or offended and all that mattered was everyone else felt about me.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

I wouldn't even call it sympathy or empathy. I lived for other people so I could be listed in their good books. I would give up on so many things, just to even find myself not being the centre of attention. I wouldn't say I was being wrong or bad, however. In fact, I firmly believe that if I have my confidence improved, even only by the slightest of margins, it's thanks to the person I used to be and the experiences I had to go through. I learnt that its okay for me to speak what I desire, no matter how I came across. Because the people I talked with never refrained from doing so at all. And its only fair for me to try and reciprocate. I have just as much rights to be comfortable and safe as they do and I can't let myself be manuevered and controlled by people just because I feel I'm obliged to put them ahead of myself. It really is important to set the boundaries straight and according to your will and wish and those who truly do want to stick around, will do so no matter what. 

Love, peace.