Move on?

Sometimes, we just like to be a part of the crowd, don't we? We like having fun, watching all the chaos that's happening because we are not involved in that. There are those of us who even like to stir up the situation and bring the flame that had gone a little down for good, back to life.

Hello all, I'm the Earthian.

It's fun, for the little while it lasts. It's fun for almost everyone, except for those who are actually involved. It's really easy to ask people to be sportive about the whole thing and then ask them to move on like nothing ever happened. And if they aren't able to move on, call them losers.
"Moving on". Two ideal words put so well together, as if it is the actual remedy to all sorts of ailments in this world. You have a bad day? Just move on! You just recovered from the loss of your loved one? Move on! You just got your relationship ended? Move on! You just met with an accident? Move on!
I mean, it's just ridiculous. And the funny thing is, those who actually ask us to move on, are usually the ones to be blamed. Okay, I maybe kidding on that.

But, seriously, not everyone is built to move on. There maybe those who are a little less tough, physically and emotionally. When they turn out to be the victims of bad situations, moving on is like the last resort for them. And when you keep asking them to move on and they are unable to, you're only rubbing in on the fact that they are a little less tough. Give them time. If someone can tell us to move on, it's time and only time. Because, like I've said before, even if the pain is not relieved for a long time, time will make it numb, numb enough to make you realize that it's time to actually move on.

In today's world, it's easy to blame the prey rather than the predator because of the simple fact that most of us are like predators. Maybe, it's the preys fault too, but it sure isn't always the case. Think about it.