Phobia

Majority of us have loads of fear. It's almost like we want to be afraid! Our fears have started to define us. Why? Why can't we define our fears?, which actually should be the case.

Hello all, The Earthian here.

Lack of positivity. 

That is the only answer. Often we fail because we are not confident enough to do what we do best. And the answer for this is lack of positivity. Confidence really is a huge factor in achieving our goals. It actually enables you to reach them.
Fear is a huge factor that decides our confidence. It makes a fool of you by playing mind games with you and projects the result in a negative way. Hence, you will be stripped off of your confidence and you'll start doubting your own capabilities.

So, what now? Will your fear go away all of a sudden without any efforts? Like some sort of magic? Absolutely not.
See, one must first understand, that most of the fear one has is psychological. It's something that you've created for yourself. A man, when he is born has only two fears: fear of falling down and fear of loud noises. Everything else, he acquires as he grows up.
Evidently, most of the fears we have are based, someway or the other, on our goals and it's results. Basically you're just afraid of an ill-happening that hasn't happened yet.

What can we do? Try. Trying is the most basic action one could do. I am a chocolate addict because I tried it once. I was once afraid of blogging, now that I've tried it, I feel I can do it. Trying gives you an actual result that can and will make you satisfied.
I hope I made my point.

Lots of love, take care.