Moment.

I want you guys to ask yourself a question and be honest to yourself.
So, ask yourself "Am I happy?". If your answer is "yes", great. If it is "no", let's talk about the reasons for it.

Hello, The Earthian here.

So, I feel that the biggest reason we aren't truly happy is because we actually are afraid to be happy! Sounds vague, I know. Think about it, to be happy, you need to do what you love. To do that, you need courage. To have courage you must be ready to face anything.

For most of us, we are afraid of being happy. Because in our mind, there is always a negative thought "what if ?". As long as that prevails, true happiness can never be attained. You can keep struggling, working hard, searching for happiness and can end up never attaining it.
So, why are we scared? It is because of the simple fact that we are too worried about the future or too sorry about our past. Just know that you can never see what's going to come at you. And, you can never go back in time and change whatever happened in your past. They are called "Future" and "Past" for a reason. Realize that.
So you have two simple choices. You can either be sorry for yourself all the time and always fight for happiness, looking for it at all the wrong places, or, you can start living the moment. You can realize that each moment exists for only that moment (cliche?) and can choose to capture it. That is totally up to you.

Lots of love, peace.