Safe Space

 The moment you start respecting yourself, you will stop chasing after people. There is no need for anyone in your life who doesn't care for your existence, who doesn't value the person you are, and who doesn't want you to do well in life. There are only a few people out there who genuinely want the best for you and more often than not, these people will let you know of their intentions and wants. They make it clear that you are a priority for them and that they value your presence. It's only these people that you want around you at all times. You don't need negative people, you don't need someone telling you what your limits are and what you can and can't achieve. You don't need to tolerate negativity for no reason either. It's your life to live and it is up to you to create the safe space that you deserve.

Love, peace.
An Earthian.