Defeats.

One thing I'd like to remember for as long as my memory serves me well: I am always responsible for the person I am, things that happen to me are things that I let happen to me. I no longer am in a position to blame situations and people for my failures in my life.

Hello there, I'm 'the Earthian'. I call myself that just to try and be a little more grateful for everything that this planet has done for me.

It's time I claim responsibility for my life. When I can take success without having any second thoughts, when I decide that's it's because of my own effort that I reap the rewards that I reap out of the work I put in, I believe I should possess the exact mentality when I fail too, that it's because of me I endure and experience failures. There are ways to lose, very different ones too, lose gracefully and lose sourly. And I want to learn to lose gracefully. Accept defeat for what it is than try and find loopholes and pockets to exploit to explain my defeats. You can pick whatever strategy that you'd like to pick and I'll be the last person to judge you. If I'm going down, I'm going down gracefully, not with excuses and complaints. 

Love, peace.