The Fun Ruiners.

Friendships are tiresome. Or am I the only one who feels that way? Because everytime I'm with people who call me their friend, I get so stuffed with obligations. It's like to be friends with someone, I need to fill out forms and sign papers where I acknowledge that I'd be friends with them even if they decide to do activities that I wouldn't enjoy.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

I know it sounds really silly. But is it really? Like what is friendship? Is it doing stuff together, stuff that people usually do together? Is there a proper definition for it? Should I always compromise on things I'd like because I'm around people I consider my friends and they want to do other stuff? Does being friends with someone have to strip me off of my basic opinions? Is it rude to walk off and do something I personally like?
For someone with a lot of friends and a lot of experience with these obligatory things, these things may not seem like such a big deal.
For those who are a little demure and awkward, they know the real pain of being in these obligatory friendships.
Because we get termed as the people who ruin the fun that is being had by the people in the group. We are always the ones that have to give up on personal likings to just stick around with people who call us their friends and experience what we really aren't looking to experience.

I think it's time to pause this and continue with it later.

Lots of love, peace.