Rejection.

One of the biggest fears of people is the fear of getting rejected. This fear is bad for two reasons, one of them is the fact that you will be living in a "dome of comfort" when it really isn't anything close to comfortable and the second reason is, you'll always feel less confident about who you are as a person.

Hello there, I'm the Earthian.

I can understand how it can be very difficult for someone to actually go up to someone and say hello for the first time ever. Heck, even I don't do it a lot. There is always that question that lingers in our heads when we start talking to someone for the first time ever. For instance, "what if I get mistaken by them?", "What if I am creeping them out?", "What if I am making them uncomfortable just with my presence?".

And chances are, you are probably invading their personal space and you are probably making them uncomfortable and you are creeping them out and you will most probably get rejected. But what's the worst thing that could happen from this? Like what can possibly happen if an unknown and a random stranger rejects our proposal of being friends with them? I mean, you probably aren't going to meet them ever again in your life and even if you do, neither one of you is going to be caring about that incident that happened between the two of you. You know why? Because there are bigger things to focus on!
Like I've said before, sometimes we just like to think that things are complicated when they aren't actually. I don't know if that hobby is cool or not. But I surely know, it is the reason we still keep coming back to square one.

Lot's of love, peace.

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