The Bridge.

Let's say you've ended up on bad terms with someone you actually care about. But because you're so angry at them, your words got the best of you and you've let them all out at that someone.

Hello all, the Earthian here.

Most often, this feeling is mutual. But people don't like their soft side to be noticed by other people, for whatever reason. They try and cover it up by pretending they don't care and secretly suffer. To add to this, there's their ego which will not in any way allow them to actually start up the conversation and apologize. But the people on both the ends know that they want things to be normal between them again. We know that time doesn't wait for anyone. Neither one of them does a thing about what had happened and their pain soon becomes numb, not relievd.

Building a bridge is an art. The bridge needs to be chiseled perfectly as any defect will make it fall apart. This is analogical to two people connecting with each other. The bond should be carefully formed. Getting to know each other, understanding each others' views are all important factors that will come into account. Believe it or not, it takes time and effort to build what you have built with anyone whom you can call your friend. However, the bad thing here is that all it takes is one small word to collapse the whole bridge which took so long to get constructed. It's like the single extra vehicle on that bridge which makes the pressure exceed the bridge's limit.

The point is, words are something you can never take back. Once​ you let the wrong words out, all that you can do is be sorry about it. And if you're chivalrous, make things right, even if it means that you have to sacrifice a lot, even if it means you have to lose your ego. You'll  have a simple choice to make, lose your ego or lose to your ego.
Ultimately, you know what the right choice is.

Lots of love, peace.