Advice.
Invariably, everyone I've met have had some words of wisdom for me to take. And most of them mean really well. Some really just share it from a suggestion's point of view whilst some share it with a matter-of-fact tone.
Hello there, I am the lad who calls himself 'the Earthian'.
They also have this in commonality, they do it with my best interest at their hearts. They do it because they don't want me to fail the way they did, they do it because they don't want me to suffer like they did and I appreciate it, appreciate them all. And I'd do the same too, share my bit of advice if I ever come across an opportunity to share those 'words of wisdom'. However, as someone who's been on the receiving end of it for ages, I wonder if those words of wisdom will actually help anyone for people in real life, often just need support and not words that remind them of their failures. I, for on, do not enjoy being told I weren't doing the right things in life to win. I don't know if it's helpful and I would love to make sure it isn't doing more damage than it is doing good.
Just a random thought.
Hello there, I am the lad who calls himself 'the Earthian'.
They also have this in commonality, they do it with my best interest at their hearts. They do it because they don't want me to fail the way they did, they do it because they don't want me to suffer like they did and I appreciate it, appreciate them all. And I'd do the same too, share my bit of advice if I ever come across an opportunity to share those 'words of wisdom'. However, as someone who's been on the receiving end of it for ages, I wonder if those words of wisdom will actually help anyone for people in real life, often just need support and not words that remind them of their failures. I, for on, do not enjoy being told I weren't doing the right things in life to win. I don't know if it's helpful and I would love to make sure it isn't doing more damage than it is doing good.
Just a random thought.
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