Disrespect.

This is something I'd love for people to remember; Never, ever, let someone mistreat your or disrespect you on purpose. If they do, make sure they know you don't appreciate it, even if they're only trying to crack a joke or make gentle comedy. You are not to be disrespected, you are not to be treated without dignity and grace, your feelings are not to be disregarded and it is only you who can ensure it doesn't happen. Your life is first of all yours to take care of and thereofore you must do it. If you don't, there won't be many others who would do it for you. Frankly speaking, I don't think there'd be anyone who will support you, if you don't do it yourself. I know it sounds very obvious but you wouldn't believe how many don't do it. You wouldn't believe how many don't even attempt to do it, some just absorb abuse and tolerate nonsense as though they deserve it. Nobody deserves it. 

Love, peace.

An Earthian.