Compliments.
If you give people an opportunity to treat you badly, they will take up on it, without a question. Can't say the same if you give them an opportunity to treat you well though. And I know, it is not surprising at all. But why is this? why is it that when we give someone a reason to treat us badly they take it up immediately and not so immediately when you give them a reason to treat you well?
Hello there, I'm the Earthian.
See, we all have been brought up with this competing mindset. We were always taught to look out for ways to one up our rivals, basically everyone who . Why else would we constantly compare ourselves with other people? And it is because we are always gunning for reasons to show our superiority, you know, portray our own brilliance and have the limelight on our heads, we just don't have it in us to appreciate someone wholeheartedly.
Something that we need to understand is that just because someone does a great job doing something, it doesn't mean we have to look for reasons to undermine them, and compliment them only when we are not able to find or cook up reasons for us to undermine them. Part of expanding our horizons lies in appreciating the horizons of others.
Success is really not about showing people why they are inferior to us or even why we are superior to them, It's completely about happiness. And happiness is a dish best when shared.
Lot's of love, peace.
Hello there, I'm the Earthian.
See, we all have been brought up with this competing mindset. We were always taught to look out for ways to one up our rivals, basically everyone who . Why else would we constantly compare ourselves with other people? And it is because we are always gunning for reasons to show our superiority, you know, portray our own brilliance and have the limelight on our heads, we just don't have it in us to appreciate someone wholeheartedly.
Something that we need to understand is that just because someone does a great job doing something, it doesn't mean we have to look for reasons to undermine them, and compliment them only when we are not able to find or cook up reasons for us to undermine them. Part of expanding our horizons lies in appreciating the horizons of others.
Success is really not about showing people why they are inferior to us or even why we are superior to them, It's completely about happiness. And happiness is a dish best when shared.
Lot's of love, peace.
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